Thursday, October 30, 2008

The Girl In Our Life We Overlook

Hi Friends,
Cheers to y'all.

I'm again here after a 3 Months Siesta but again I've come up with a kind of notion/fact that nudged my rationality late night at 10pm. I read an article, lying click dead om my friends PC, yesterday. Have a look at it and feel the deep and effective meaning it has inside it...
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Tomorrow you may get a working woman or are having a working wife, but you should know / marry her with these facts well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But how many of us feel, understand it......

Please appreciate/respect "HER" not just because She is a Girl but truly because She is the Creator.

What y'all say?

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

Nice one boy....

Regards,
Neeraj

Anonymous said...

Nice....and while reading ur posts I gt dat u r a Feminist....Isn't it?

Anonymous said...

Good Goin Bro...
I like it n m srry dat I was missing this kindda stuff...


Prateek

Anonymous said...

Amazin Man....
It's awesome....


rahul

Anonymous said...

Nice but I think I have gone through this earlier....
But the chapters are new and interesting for me....
so keep on posting boy....


Rahul

Anonymous said...

Ohhhh my god...........such beautiful writing........hats off to u ....really i can say that u understand a girls mind , really .....no one can in this world.Reray smiply gr8.

Anonymous said...

this is really so nice. Not even a girl can think in this way. the situation is all real.

Unknown said...

Yeah,
That's all what I saw and seeing...

Unknown said...

awesome yar hindi mein bolon to maza aa gaya

Unknown said...

realy it touch my heart deeply......such a tough writer u are......i salute u bhai

Unknown said...

hey dat wzzz a cool one dear!!!itzz good dat u feel sooo......i wish every boy cud feel dat!!

Unknown said...

hey dat wzzz a cool one dear!!!itzz good dat u feel sooo......i wish every boy cud feel dat!!

Unknown said...

Thanks Shatakshi,
I Wish All Must Have This Feeling..It Shud Be Inborn

Cheers
Saub

I'M WAT I'M said...

rightly said brother...the real life we always overlook.we all are chasing towards the thing which we hard to catch but truth is otherwise.keep ur spirits as like as you are..:-))))

with regards and ltz success
ranu

sanah said...

Good to know..your thoughts about the female fraternity :) RESPECT!